No Dating
It’s no surprise that the Amish only marry people from their culture because they need someone who will support their religion. It’s difficult to persuade someone to change their lifestyle and behaviors in order to marry completely. In the Amish culture, however, there are significant dating restrictions. It is forbidden to date someone who has not been baptized in the Amish faith. You are not allowed to date until you have been accepted into the group. Not to mention the fact that only public places are used for dating.
Blessed Engagement
Any major life event in the Amish community necessitates careful consideration and involves the entire community. People cannot simply get engaged and marry without the permission of others. Once a couple starts dating, it doesn’t take long for them to get engaged. When the man proposes, he and his fiancee must seek permission from the church. After the church has blessed them, they are allowed to marry.